6 Questions to Ask a Family Law Attorney

November 1, 2024

Choosing the right family law attorney can significantly impact the outcome of your divorce or child custody case. One of the most important steps in finding the right attorney is the initial consultation, which offers valuable insight into the lawyer’s approach and how they might handle your case. During this meeting, attorneys will learn about your situation and share strategies for how they can assist you.

There is no obligation to hire the attorney after the consultation. It’s an opportunity for you to evaluate whether the lawyer is a good fit for your needs. To make the most of this time, it’s helpful to come prepared with questions. If you’re unsure what to ask, here are six important questions to consider:

1. What Is Your Experience With Cases Like Mine?

This question helps you understand whether the attorney has handled cases similar to yours and whether they’re familiar with the complexities you may be facing. While every case is unique, some situations share common elements. For instance, if you’re dealing with a high-conflict divorce, you can ask how the attorney approaches resolving disputes and how they would handle a spouse who may be obstructing the process.

2. How Do You Approach Family Law Disputes?

Learning about the attorney’s overall strategy gives you insight into whether they favor negotiation, mediation, or litigation. Understanding their style will help you determine if it aligns with your goals. For example, some attorneys focus on mediation to resolve cases when negotiations stall, while others may lean toward litigation. It’s important to find a lawyer whose approach matches your vision for settling your divorce or custody case.

3. What Are Your Fees, and How Is Billing Structured?

Understanding the costs upfront is essential. Ask about retainer fees, hourly rates, and how billing is handled. Reputable attorneys are transparent about their fees and should clearly explain their fee structure. Most lawyers require an upfront payment known as a retainer, so it’s important to understand what that covers and how future payments will work.

4. How Often Will We Communicate, and How Will I Receive Updates?

Consistent and clear communication is key to a good attorney-client relationship. Ask how frequently the attorney will provide updates and whether they’ll reach out by phone, email, or another method. It’s reasonable to expect a response within 24 hours. You should also feel confident that your attorney will proactively keep you informed about any developments in your case, as long periods without communication can lead to unnecessary stress.

5. What Is Your Availability and Caseload?

It’s important to gauge whether the attorney has enough time to dedicate to your case. If they’re managing too many cases, they may not be able to give yours the attention it requires. Be sure to ask about their current caseload and whether they are confident they can commit to representing you effectively.

6. What Is the Potential Outcome of My Case, and What Challenges Might Arise?

An honest assessment of your case will help you set realistic expectations. Ask the attorney to discuss the strengths of your case and any challenges you might face. An experienced lawyer should be able to provide you with a balanced view, outlining both the opportunities and the potential obstacles.

Asking these questions will help you make an informed decision about whether an attorney is the right fit for you and your family law case.

By Alexandra “Lexie” Rigden

Alexandra “Lexie” Rigden understands that family law clients face unique challenges mentally, emotionally, and financially. Rigden, Lieberman & Mignogna, P.A. handles all stages of family law litigation, including trials, emergency court motions, as well as pre and post judgment applications. Every case is different, and Lexie Rigden & Ronald G. Lieberman will work to achieve the best outcome for clients whether it involves litigation or settlement. Request a consultation to discuss your case further.

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Ryan D.
True 5 star Lawyer
Alexandra is by far the best lawyer I retained. She did not waste anytime with me or try and drag out the situation for more money. Straight and to the point. Alexandra knows the facts that count for your case and is prepared and ready to fight every inch for you. She also is passionate and listens to you in completely so she can better understand what you are going through. I absolutely recommend Alexandra Kardon Rigden for family law or a DV case.
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Do yourself a favor and hire Alexandra
Alexandra came as a recommendation from an attorney friend and she was spot on. Alexandra kept me informed through every step of the process during such a difficult time in my life. She explained things in detail and always had my best interest in mind, even when I may not have realized it. As my title says, do yourself a favor and hire Alexandra.
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